Maternity/ family photos

How do I tell the photographer I hate the photos? When we got the sneak peak, I asked if I could pick the photos for her to edit & she told me she picks the best photos because she’s the professional. I waited for the album, but honestly I hate them all. I really wanted at least one picture of my family & I’m so disappointed. The background is horrible & she told me it would be a great background. My hair looks bad & my kids aren’t smiling in more than half the photos. I also look so fat and awkward in all the photos. She was a nice photographer and the day of the photoshoot she was so patient with us, so I feel bad saying anything. I’m not sure what to do